• Relationships

    I was his 20…

    I have written about the 80/20 rule in the past and today I had a revelation about a relationship in was in past few years. Matter of fact he was the reason why I started this blog many years ago.  “80/20 rule for relationships is the theory which says, in a fairly healthy relationship, you only get 80 percent of what you want… The other part of the equation says that it’s the endless search for that missing 20 percent you’d hoped for in your mate that leads people to cheat…” – The REAL Deal on the 80/20 Rule for Relationships For him I was that 20…  I mean the…

  • Single Parenting,  Uncategorized

    How Did I Get Here?

    I wish I could blame the last year on Mercury Retrograde but since that only last three weeks at a time about three times a year, I really can’t.  Plus I am not really into astrology like that.  It does appear however that each year during certain times of the year I suffer tremendously.  The suffering comes in many forms but typically it is emotionally and financially. I have always been the person who could offer up some pretty awesome advise about life, finances, credit, relationships, etc… but I was not living those words.  My life was actually spiraling downward.  I mean in the last 5 years I have moved…

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  • Relationships

    Why Men Lie to Women? (Video)

    As I was engulfed in social media yesterday, I stumbled across this video which was pretty interesting to me.  I wanted to share it with you.  Although I don’t believe he really answered the question, I do think they both have very valid points.  Leave your comments below and let me know what you think.   Peace and Blessings…   Life of the Partys: Why Do Men Lie To Women? from Zurek (Rick Party) on Vimeo.

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  • Single Woman Tidbits

    Getting Vacation Ready

    In just a little over a month my friends (old and new) and I will be vacationing together in Miami.  This travel is much needed coming off of a new to high school year with my youngest daughter and a senior year with my oldest.  The last 10 months have been super stressful and busy.  Between dance classes, marching band, and education I have really been stretched thin.  So I am looking forward to spending 5 days in sunny Miami Beach doing what I want to do.   A thought that is lingering is not waiting until the last minute to purchase items for my trip and pack.  I figured I will…

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