Relationships
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End of a Decade
In a few days we will not only start a new year but also a new decade. I actually started A Single Woman’s Chronicles 10 years ago… WOW… Over the last 10 years there have been a lot of UPS and DOWNS and much GROWTH… I will not recap 10 years worth of things but I will say I am not the same woman from when I started this. I’m definitely matured. I did want to talk about a few things I pretty much kept under wrap in the last few years. So here we go… LOVE and Relationships: If you follow me on any of my social channels you…
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3 Ways to Make it Happen While You Wait…
This post is for all the readers who are relationship status: SINGLE. There have been long pockets of time for me where I have been single as far as relationship status. In the beginning I really used to let that status stifle my growth as a person. I used to ask myself, “Why not me”. I would question if I was worthy of a stable loving relationship or pick myself a part to see what was my problem. Finally I had to come to the realization that it wasn’t necessarily me and that I needed to direct my energy elsewhere. While I waited for that special someone to come in…
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Top 3 Things You MUST consider when you are Single but Dating
My Dating Story It seems as if I always have a dating story to tell. Well today isn’t any different. Let me tell you about my first real experience with being single and dating multiple men. A few years back I was on a dating website and I met a man who peeked my interest. We talked for hours during the first conversation and it appeared to be some type of connection. The one thing I could appreciate about this man is his honesty about his situation as well as his desire to not be in a committed relationship. At that point in my life I had been on a…
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Dating the unDateable
Hey loves… It’s been quite some time since I’ve written about dating… I really hadn’t experienced anything different from what I have written in prior post. Today, I did want to write about dating the undateable. I actually met someone… I met someone whom I absolutely connected with when we first met… In most areas he makes me smile and makes it easy for me to be vulnerable. I really don’t follow timelines when it comes to dating however I feel like the situation with him progressed to a point where we could be exclusive. Rather than assume that is what we would be, I asked. I just can’t deal…
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So you Don’t want a Relationship?
So today on Facebook I posted about people saying that I shouldn’t say that I want a relationship. I personally don’t follow that theory. The people who say this say that I should be looking for friendship and courting and other attributes of what I would think would encompass a relationship. I get it… a date or two or three dates doesn’t constitute a relationship. There is a period of time that you develop friendship and you court and whatever else happens that eventually will or will not develop into something more like a relationship. The ultimate goal, in my mind, is to be in a relationship…. Right??? So when…