ARCHIEVED POST FROM BLOGGER: There are some phrases as a single woman with children that just make my skin crawl.  The title of this blog post is on the top of the list.  While I know that is a man’s preference and everyone is entitled to their preference…  It just baffles me when a man (who has kids) says this…  It is my opinion that this statement is one of the most selfish things to say to a single woman raising her child(ren)…  Well if you are a man who has kids….  I am sure there are several reasons why a man doesn’t want to date a woman that has…

REPOSTED FROM BLOGGER: So I have been on a few online dating websites previously and met some interesting men who do not live near me. I have connected with a couple and recently one in particular. So in effort of trying something out of the box I decided a few months ago to pursue a casual relationship with a man out of state. Man, it was great to connect with someone who I really could connect with and had a lot of the same interest. We decided that we would see each other at least once a month and we met in a central location. In the beginning it worked…

REPOSTED FROM BLOGGER: Hi all, So yesterday I get a phone call from a man that I have known for about 2 years now.  We dated casually when we first met but I was still at a crossroads from another relationship and decided that I need to close one book before I opened another one…. To make a long story short…. He and I kept in touch and are friends but now he is in a relationship and it appears to be a pretty good one.  That is great and I am happy for him as he would always tell me that “Nice guys finish last”… Anyway, on the phone…

ARCHIVED FROM BLOGGER: So as the year 2009 comes to a close, I have decided, for the first time in years, to have a clean slate in the men department. I decided to let go of some of those lingering relationships that I had established over the years that were non-productive. Almost all of them understood. SN: I am happy about that… What I have realized is that I was doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results….(the definition of insanity)… I really desire something different in regards to a relationship in 2010. I know part of it is me…. I have been told that I…