The Phone Call

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Hi all, So yesterday I get a phone call from a man that I have known for about 2 years now.  We dated casually when we first met but I was still at a crossroads from another relationship and decided that I need to close one book before I opened another one…. To make a long story short…. He and I kept in touch and are friends but now he is in a relationship and it appears to be a pretty good one.  That is great and I am happy for him as he would always tell me that “Nice guys finish last”… Anyway, on the phone yesterday he ask me why didn’t I call him to check up on him…  My response was something like “Isn’t that what your girlfriend is for?”….  Was that a wrong statement?  I mean he and I are friends but not to the point where I was conversing with him everyday.  I feel that out of respect for his girl I don’t call.  I wouldn’t want that to happen to me.  Plus when I get on the phone with this dude he makes all kinds of cracks about us going to dinner or me coming over so he can cook for me and such…. IMO that is a set up and I just don’t have time for it.  So do I cut ties with this man?  I don’t need the attention from an already taken man for sure….