REPOSTED FROM BLOGGER: Hi all, So yesterday I get a phone call from a man that I have known for about 2 years now.  We dated casually when we first met but I was still at a crossroads from another relationship and decided that I need to close one book before I opened another one…. To make a long story short…. He and I kept in touch and are friends but now he is in a relationship and it appears to be a pretty good one.  That is great and I am happy for him as he would always tell me that “Nice guys finish last”… Anyway, on the phone…

ARCHIVED FROM BLOGGER: So as the year 2009 comes to a close, I have decided, for the first time in years, to have a clean slate in the men department. I decided to let go of some of those lingering relationships that I had established over the years that were non-productive. Almost all of them understood. SN: I am happy about that… What I have realized is that I was doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results….(the definition of insanity)… I really desire something different in regards to a relationship in 2010. I know part of it is me…. I have been told that I…