The 6th Sense of an Ex [Video]

Hi loves…

I am coming off of the high of my weekend.  I was able to spend some quality time with both of my daughters individually.  That always makes me feel good.

Today I want to talk about “Ex’s”.

So your life is moving at a good pace now.  You are happy and your light is shining through to everyone you meet and the people you already know.  Then out of the blue you get a phone call, text, or social media inbox from one of your Ex’s.  It is like they have a 6th sense about your happiness and they are feeding off of that energy.  I KNOW I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE…

It doesn’t matter if your business with that ex was resolved or unresolved.  They find a way to make contact for whatever reason almost in an intentional effort to disrupt the happiness you have achieved.

Ex’s reach out for several different reasons.

• Their current relationship is failing and they need an ego boost.  See when they were with you, you provided them with positive reinforcements about life, work, happiness, etc…  They may or may not be getting that in the current situation and they come to you for that ego boost.
• Being single has worn off and they miss you or the idea of you. In my personal opinion I believe they just miss the idea of you.  They miss having you around to maybe go places or do things but it is not necessarily YOU they miss.  They are an “Ex” for a reason so it is more than just the IDEA of having a mate.
• They may visit a special place you’ve shared or heard a special song which reminded them of you.  It is fine that they still hold some significance of the relationship with you but again I say they are an “Ex” for a reason.  While it is nice to know that you are in their thoughts, you have to look at the whole picture and not just pieces of the good time.

My advice to you:

STAY THE COURSE

Keep doing whatever it is that you have been doing to make yourself happy without that Ex.  That means you need to either have a “Come to Jesus” talk with them about your goals and your happiness and how you will not allow them to disturb YOUR happiness OR LET THEM GO!!!

While it may be easy to get pulled back into a conversation that makes you feel good about what you had with them, I implore you to stay the course.  I am just gonna leave this video of T.D. Jakes here as motivation.

Your Destiny is Not Tied to the person who left – T. D. Jakes

Peace and Blessing