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    How Did I Get Here?

    I wish I could blame the last year on Mercury Retrograde but since that only last three weeks at a time about three times a year, I really can’t.  Plus I am not really into astrology like that.  It does appear however that each year during certain times of the year I suffer tremendously.  The suffering comes in many forms but typically it is emotionally and financially. I have always been the person who could offer up some pretty awesome advise about life, finances, credit, relationships, etc… but I was not living those words.  My life was actually spiraling downward.  I mean in the last 5 years I have moved…

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    Overexposed

    Do you sometimes feel overexposed?  Merriam-Webster defines overexpose as leaving something without covering or protection for too long. I believe that sometimes I am leave myself uncovered and vulnerable to overexposing myself.  There have been life experiences over the last few months in which I am thinking I am just being me and “real” by opening up my whole world to people and these same people take my exposure for granted. I have often said that I am transparent but being transparent doesn’t mean I have to be overexposed. For a while I have been reflecting on this feeling of overexposure.  It often gives me a sense of melancholy.  Instead…

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    Shifting Gears – The Love Conference Hampton Roads

    My Friend Alasha Bennett of The Dating Mechanic presents: Shifting Gears The Love Conference Up until this moment you’ve spent your time COMPROMISING in relationships that weren’t worth your time, spending TIME and ENERGY on people who don’t measure up to your standards whose values and goals do not line up with the direction you are going, TOSSING and turning at night with the thoughts of whether you’ll ever be with someone who appreciates and cares for you. STRUGGLING to find BALANCE between work, family, and school can take a toll on a relationship playing a part in the never ending cycle of being BROKEN HEARTED. All of this can end…

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