So today on Facebook I posted about people saying that I shouldn’t say that I want a relationship.  I personally don’t follow that theory. The people who say this say that I should be looking for friendship and courting and other attributes of what I would think would encompass a relationship. I get it…  a date or two or three dates doesn’t constitute a relationship.  There is a period of time that you develop friendship and you court and whatever else happens that eventually will or will not develop into something more like a relationship.  The ultimate goal, in my mind, is to be in a relationship….  Right??? So when…